I feel your pain, I hate it too "Masturba...EE YUK..tion..."i'm lovn it lovn it lovn" (".)

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In Dedication to the sad&heartbrkn souls that seek disclosure from the selfishness and betrayal of Infidelity, Because realistically...

....does anyone ever question what is the aftermath of an affair!!!



Back in week two we discussed Infidelity...not something I have a positive view about but here goes.......
My personal view on Infidelity ....I could never agree with it BUT only be against it. I honestly believe that infidelity causes so much pain and heartache that no matter how hard we as humans may want to stay strong and hold things together the pain and upheaval of going through that heartache and misery will almost defiantly to some degree destroy a part of you and the people involved. Have a look at this website as it seems to show an “UNDERSTANDING”
….. yeh I know……a understanding about Infidelity…

http://www.divorcewizards.com/cheating.html

“A significant number of people are sexually unfaithful in their marriages. Infidelity provides a major occasion for divorce. For couples who don't divorce, infidelity is a major cause for long-lasting pain, disillusionment and mistrust. This article looks at the reasons people have for being sexually unfaithful. They include: to experience sexual variety, to find relief from life's stress and responsibilities, to make a point or force a change in the marriage and, sometimes, to maintain an unhappy marriage by meeting elsewhere the needs that aren't met at home.”

This is just a short passage taken from the website it isn’t a whole lot of information really, just common sense....or just educational bullshit (".)


I believe people don’t really understand the pain and grief that infidelity brings. The person you betray, become disloyal to, dishonest towards, unfaithful, untrue, false, fake and untrustworthy towards is that one person who trust’s you with their all and all you have in return is destroyed their truth. Many couples go through the pain of infidelity but the person who holds all the power and control of that pain never seems to understand the extent of it. The 18-year marriage, the anniversaries, the birth of their children, the house, the cars, the business, bank accounts, their bed, the family they nurtured and the little heart shaped engraving on the tree bark. It unfortunately happens and that’s why I feel infidelity is extremely pathetic and very sadly wrong. Trust is a very big thing; if you enjoy destroying people’s trust, belief’s and faith then you are not worthy of anyone’s time, LOVE or affection. I strongly believe in the great “saying” what goes around comes around…….yeh cliché but I’m only being honest. How depressing as nothing in life is easy and this definitely isn’t a straight down the line situation, No “ bye bye people have a wicked day and remember don’t commit any infidelity” …… it’s SINFUL I tell you, a sinfully painful blady sin. (“.)




A recent example Cheryl Cole and Ashley Cole … I know a cliché but it is pretty sad…no matter how horrid or mean or bitchy the person is…. We can quite clearly see it has destroyed Cheryl Cole.... proves my point...






http://www.mynewcastle.net/newcastle/celebs&gossip-cheryl-tweedy.htm

...And yes yes yes I do see that there are two sides to every story but if your happy is your excuse for cheating then it’s easier to be honest and leave or break up then cheat and destroy some poor soul's world.

...and here’s something i made earlier, some useful info... "The BBC is in on it too, it’s a Conspiracy theory"

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“The Big Book of Masturbation” Originally interesting and rather yuk yuk ow ow oh and double cringe yuk!!!

Hmmm PH1000 Being Bad this Module is defo something to raise an eyebrow or two about. Okay initially looking at the module guide thinking these lectures are going to be quite cool, discussing “good and bad things” and questioning Infidelity… interesting, argumentative and maybe even fun (“.) but hold back “girlfriend” as amongst Smoking, Stalking, Shoplifting, Being too religious and Infidelity we seem to have much much more…..Masturbation YUK YUK YUK eeeee YUK!!
I read (a little) through the module guide and WOW… “The big book of masturbation” or if that don’t interest you then maybe “the technology of orgasm: hysteria the vibrator, and women’s sexual satisfaction” with afternoon tea (".) or Maybe a late night read “A mind of its own: a cultural history of the penis”……… sounds a bit wild but I am sure it will keep us all entertained and awake (".) One can only hope we don’t turn into ragging masturbating freaks or crazy mad moaning, stalking, shoplifting monsters (".) NOT THAT THERES ANYTHING WRONG WITH THAT…. OH NO! How awful… Masturbation yuk yuk, I mean I am not obliviously un-aware to the good, the bad and the damn right dirty thing that consist within this world but I think Masturbation isn’t something I wish to be discussing in public… Cringe Cringe … “Oh my god, Double Cringe” (“.)… yuk I need to be cleansed for my sins but dont stress my Gorgeous fellow "sinners" i will be back to entice you all into my oddness..... Hugs and kisses (".)

And yet this is just the start… we have Drugs and Lying with integrity … LIFESKILLS people (“.)