Tattoo's..... "Ok Mother I vow never to even think about Tattoooooo's let alone get one, okee .... We even (".)"

Tattoos… well I always look at Tattoos and think wow …body art but I am also very much split between the questions and thoughts that; would I ever, could I ever and what the hell it isn’t going to happen. I come from an Asian orientated family where subjects like Tattoos are TABOOO… it is very much believed, understood and practised that…Tattoos are sinful, bad, evil and in a sense Tattoos corrupt ones beautifully pure and feeble soul.

Within this view, it is considered that our bodies are not there to be “drawn on” and if one permits a tattoo then they will be responsible for the punishment they will face in the after life.

Muslims believe the word tattoo is traced to the Tahitian, tatu or tatau, (tribe of people) simply meaning to mark or to strike. A tattoo is a design or marking made by the insertion of a pigment into punctures or cuts to the skin. Tattoos are a type of body modification and this is not allowed in Islam because is Haraam and it involves changing the creation of Allah Taa'la, (God)
I personally believe each to their own ….if it doesn’t affect me that why do I care. We all are in control (to a certain extent) of our own bodies, so if we wish to under go painful painful pain, then for the love of art let it be.

Yes for me religion is a factor…although my mother being the woman she is and the blatant fact that she would disown me (haha) if I ever had one does base the view that I WILL NOT BE HAVING ONE (Mother).
But I do think about although it maybe yum looking on a flat, slender, toned looking body…. I KNOW tattoos are permanent and will stay on forever and ever… “till the end of time”… and yes of course you can get one removed like Mrs ANGELINA JOLIE………..

Or have many more like Mrs ANGELINA JOLIE……..

http://www.vanishingtattoo.com/tattoo/celeb-jolie1.htm

On a personal level my sister tells how she would …..

“want to get one that will do me for the rest of my life, something that will make sense until I am 80, and somewhere where its not always on show but can also be seen without having to reveal private body parts to show people! Also I want it some where I can see it as well.. not on my back for example! I am just toying with the idea but I am tempted... I was thinking of getting my initials in pretty writing on the inside of my wrist... just something tiny! I know you are going to say 'but what if you get married and change your name'... but I am NEVER going to change my name... marriage or no marriage.... its my name.. and its my name for life! I don't see why a woman should have to sacrifice her name just coz she married someone! (Also I understand that I may change my mind about this one day but right now I feel pretty strong about the name thing)…..” Ok I can tell my sister thinks I am planning to keep her secret(oh and she has issues about marriage too) … but come one girlfriend Mother dearest has eyes she most definitely will see what is on your wrist you fart face….

A tattoo is something for my sister (in her warped mind) of significance. She wants meaning to exist, a story to be told…. her views are similar to many celebrates like Mrs Jolie who feel the need to want a MEANING behind the Tattoo.

“Usually all my tattoos came at good times. A tattoo is something permanent when you've made a self-discovery, or something you've come to a conclusion about.”

“I dropped my pants in a tattoo parlor in Amsterdam. I woke up in a waterbed with this funky-looking dragon with a blue tongue on my hip. I realized I made a mistake, so a few months later I got a cross to cover it. When my pants hang low, it looks like I'm wearing a dagger”ANGELINA JOLIE, USA Today interview, July 17, 2003

That is all well and true (the tales and essence behind the tattoo) but many celebrates have tattoos with the understanding that its brings meaning and enlightenment….David Beckham, as foolish as he is even I felt a bit of pity for him haha ….. well laughing pity .. he a silly goose
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/entertainment/1044797.stm

Beckham's tattoo misspelt

Football player David Beckham has misspelt his wife's name on his latest tattoo.
The tattoo on his left forearm is incorrect, spelling Victoria with an added "h" as Vihctoria.
The Manchester United player reportedly decided to have his wife's name in Hindi script because he felt it would be less "tacky" than having it in English.

Tacky.... well the history of Tattoo's tells a very similar story. The word tattoo is said to have two major derivations- from the polynesian word ‘ta’ which means striking something and the tahitian word ‘tutu’ which means ‘to mark something’. the history of tattoo began over 5000 years ago and is as diverse as the people who wear them. tattoos are created by inserting colored materials beneath the skins surface. the first tattoos probably were created by accident. someone had a small wound, and rubbed it with a hand that was dirty with soot and ashes from the fire. once the wound had healed, they saw that a mark stayed permanently. despite the social sciences' growing fascination with tattooing,and the immense popularity of tattoos themselves and its practice has not left much of a historical record.

I feel your pain, I hate it too "Masturba...EE YUK..tion..."i'm lovn it lovn it lovn" (".)

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In Dedication to the sad&heartbrkn souls that seek disclosure from the selfishness and betrayal of Infidelity, Because realistically...

....does anyone ever question what is the aftermath of an affair!!!



Back in week two we discussed Infidelity...not something I have a positive view about but here goes.......
My personal view on Infidelity ....I could never agree with it BUT only be against it. I honestly believe that infidelity causes so much pain and heartache that no matter how hard we as humans may want to stay strong and hold things together the pain and upheaval of going through that heartache and misery will almost defiantly to some degree destroy a part of you and the people involved. Have a look at this website as it seems to show an “UNDERSTANDING”
….. yeh I know……a understanding about Infidelity…

http://www.divorcewizards.com/cheating.html

“A significant number of people are sexually unfaithful in their marriages. Infidelity provides a major occasion for divorce. For couples who don't divorce, infidelity is a major cause for long-lasting pain, disillusionment and mistrust. This article looks at the reasons people have for being sexually unfaithful. They include: to experience sexual variety, to find relief from life's stress and responsibilities, to make a point or force a change in the marriage and, sometimes, to maintain an unhappy marriage by meeting elsewhere the needs that aren't met at home.”

This is just a short passage taken from the website it isn’t a whole lot of information really, just common sense....or just educational bullshit (".)


I believe people don’t really understand the pain and grief that infidelity brings. The person you betray, become disloyal to, dishonest towards, unfaithful, untrue, false, fake and untrustworthy towards is that one person who trust’s you with their all and all you have in return is destroyed their truth. Many couples go through the pain of infidelity but the person who holds all the power and control of that pain never seems to understand the extent of it. The 18-year marriage, the anniversaries, the birth of their children, the house, the cars, the business, bank accounts, their bed, the family they nurtured and the little heart shaped engraving on the tree bark. It unfortunately happens and that’s why I feel infidelity is extremely pathetic and very sadly wrong. Trust is a very big thing; if you enjoy destroying people’s trust, belief’s and faith then you are not worthy of anyone’s time, LOVE or affection. I strongly believe in the great “saying” what goes around comes around…….yeh cliché but I’m only being honest. How depressing as nothing in life is easy and this definitely isn’t a straight down the line situation, No “ bye bye people have a wicked day and remember don’t commit any infidelity” …… it’s SINFUL I tell you, a sinfully painful blady sin. (“.)




A recent example Cheryl Cole and Ashley Cole … I know a cliché but it is pretty sad…no matter how horrid or mean or bitchy the person is…. We can quite clearly see it has destroyed Cheryl Cole.... proves my point...






http://www.mynewcastle.net/newcastle/celebs&gossip-cheryl-tweedy.htm

...And yes yes yes I do see that there are two sides to every story but if your happy is your excuse for cheating then it’s easier to be honest and leave or break up then cheat and destroy some poor soul's world.

...and here’s something i made earlier, some useful info... "The BBC is in on it too, it’s a Conspiracy theory"

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“The Big Book of Masturbation” Originally interesting and rather yuk yuk ow ow oh and double cringe yuk!!!

Hmmm PH1000 Being Bad this Module is defo something to raise an eyebrow or two about. Okay initially looking at the module guide thinking these lectures are going to be quite cool, discussing “good and bad things” and questioning Infidelity… interesting, argumentative and maybe even fun (“.) but hold back “girlfriend” as amongst Smoking, Stalking, Shoplifting, Being too religious and Infidelity we seem to have much much more…..Masturbation YUK YUK YUK eeeee YUK!!
I read (a little) through the module guide and WOW… “The big book of masturbation” or if that don’t interest you then maybe “the technology of orgasm: hysteria the vibrator, and women’s sexual satisfaction” with afternoon tea (".) or Maybe a late night read “A mind of its own: a cultural history of the penis”……… sounds a bit wild but I am sure it will keep us all entertained and awake (".) One can only hope we don’t turn into ragging masturbating freaks or crazy mad moaning, stalking, shoplifting monsters (".) NOT THAT THERES ANYTHING WRONG WITH THAT…. OH NO! How awful… Masturbation yuk yuk, I mean I am not obliviously un-aware to the good, the bad and the damn right dirty thing that consist within this world but I think Masturbation isn’t something I wish to be discussing in public… Cringe Cringe … “Oh my god, Double Cringe” (“.)… yuk I need to be cleansed for my sins but dont stress my Gorgeous fellow "sinners" i will be back to entice you all into my oddness..... Hugs and kisses (".)

And yet this is just the start… we have Drugs and Lying with integrity … LIFESKILLS people (“.)